I love sleep! Curl me up, cover me up and mama can sleep for 8 hours quite happily and easily! The dreams that follow are both profound and mundane-- extraordinary and just plain weird. There is much confusion over the power of dreams and where they come from. My understanding (so far) is that dreams are both our time to heal and a time to commune. Loved ones, Angels, Spirit Guides, and higher aspects of ourselves are able to easily reach us while in slumber.
While not every dream is as important... all dreams carry their own message, teaching, or healing.
Rather than stress over why you can't remember dreams, focus instead on one little thing: how do you feel when you wake? Invariably this is the gift of the dream and can help set the tone for your day. If you really are a Virgo -- and can't simply let go over the details! and desire for control even in sleep -- get over it already! Dreams are not ours to control, that's what waking hours are for. Dreams are instead the time we can receive, my darlin! Let yourself relax into it so you too can feel, share and benefit from the messages that are left for you when you wake.
For those of you still unsatisfied with the loosey goosey aspect of dreamtime, buy a pointed clear quartz. They are excellent memory sticks and when placed under a pillow can assist in dream recall.