Psychic Etiquette -- it's time to expect what you deserve.

Too many times I hear of other psychics filling your gorgeous heads with nonsense.  I work hard to be honest and in great integrity, and think it's only fair you too should expect this from us.... always! 

Psychic boundaries are essential for both parties.  I don't want to see things I shouldn't, nor do you.  So I set into place impeccable ethical standards around each session.  Being psychic is a job -- albiet one that never feels like work :-) -- and just as you don't work when you're with your family, neither do I.   

I'm not "on" all the time.  I have sacred rituals that allow me to be psychic, and once I prepare sacred space is when choose to turn up the volume and listen in to what our Guides have to say.  This protects us both and ensures you get the very best of me when we are in session. Being on, all the time, is physically exhausting and is a violation of your privacy.  I don't play that way, and I hope those you choose to work with don't either. 

Many times either due to a bad experience or out of not knowing what to expect, people fear that having a reading will give the psychic or healer access to everything... good and bad alike.  Not the case, my sweet!  I cannot know everything and choose to focus only on those questions and issues that pertain to what YOU are asking of me.  All else is off limits and protects your most intimate details.  

 

If you don't know your healer's "rules" and boundaries, please ask them.  In this way, you hold us all to a higher level of integrity.   You should be able to trust us and expect the very best in your session.  If you don't, never feel bad about stopping the session and stepping away respectfully and lovingly.  Not every match is a perfect one, and you deserve to invest your money and time in a place that resonates with you perfectly!

Why the heck you may want, really want, to have a Psychic Reading

I try my best to bring people to my work slowly.  I let people get to know me, then share what I do.  This works better ... and doesn't scare anyone off.   Not everyone digs psychics as much as I do.  Sometimes clients seek me out while other times I'm simply a novelty... a new thing to try at a party or event.

Regardless, I know if you're showing up there is a reason as directed by your own Angels & Spirit Guides.  And I am so delighted to be the one who gets to "play" in your reality with you.

If you're on the fence still, allow me to share some of the reasons people may seek me out and just what I can do to help.  I'm busy for a reason, darlin'!  I'm damn good at my work and love to be in service. 



I help you do "you" better... everytime and every way.  This is my commitment and I have a contract with God so you know you can expect the best!  There is rarely anything a psychic will share that is completely new to you.  In almost every case, I'm telling you things you know deep down and just need someone -- outside of you-- to validate.

Some people may steer clear of a psychic because they don't want bad news.    If I tell you anything "bad" I will also tell you why it's the best thing to every happen to you!  Not once has something so awful come up that took a client by surprise.  It isn't the way Spirit works or the way I work. 

With the "contract," I don't get to lie or hold back.  This is straight from God/Source/Goddess to you!  And as such, you get the purest and most unedited information available.  We are here to inspire your best and help you live immaculately!

If your heart has called you here, there's a reason... trust in this and life will flow beautifully.

Psychic Schmychic .... Client rights during a reading

When I first started doing psychic readings, my mom asked me if I was calling myself Madam Andye and using a crystal ball!  

Psychic conjures up all kinds of images of fakes and phonies for me.  It sounds so flipping airy fairy I want to kick myself everytime I present myself as a psychic.  We have so many forces working against us, some days it’s an uphill battle to introduce myself as a legitimate business woman.  Imagine the scoffs I get at professional networking events when I share what I do!

However, the bottom line is if you want to find a psychic – or someone who offers readings --  this is likely the word you will go looking for.  We (my colleagues and myself) have tried to come up with all kinds of terms to dance around psychic : intuitive, spiritual counselor, energetic healer, clairvoyant.  You name it, I’ve tried it—truly, look through a stack of my old business cards and you’ll find any number of these terms proudly printed. 

Call me what you will, I keep moving forward bringing the gift of my integrity to the masses.  I have to set an ethical standard and teach clients what a psychic should be offering them.  I work hard to legitimize my services and my industry so the healing we offer can one day be received as readily as chiropractic care (and they too had their own challenges with creating a place in healing!) 

Each time I sit down with a new client, I try to explain what they should expect of me or anyone like me. 

I have no doubts of my abilities and must move forward fearlessly.  If I wasn’t confident in my authenticity, I would never be able to fulfill the amazing tasks Spirit asks of me.  Call me what you will, I love my work and know I provide profound healings for people.    

I am not here to convince or prove to you what I do is real.  Rather I must quickly dismiss from you any resistance so I can be the powerful experience you paid for!  If you have found your way to me, I trust some part of you is ready for the information that is ready to be shared.  Once I share the magic piece that opens your heart, the most powerful transformative nature of a reading can then begin.

Even Shamans get the Blues

I had a shamanic healing session scheduled over the weekend. I have been eagerly anticipating it for weeks yet as I arrived, I was filled with butterflies. I was nervous and unsure of what to expect. Over the years I had forgotten this feeling of apprehension that often precedes a healing. I sometimes hear it from clients but rarely am on the receiving end.

I had to remind myself:

Nervous energy is often disguised excitement. In approaching a breakthrough, or great change, the energy may feel like nerves when in fact it is the universe revving us up for greatness.

It was indeed one of the most profound and moving healings I have ever received. (Love and gratitude to my sisters Katherine and Denise for this profound gift). There was nothing to be nervous about and I remembered to receive the wisdom they delivered.

When you schedule a session with an intuitive, shaman, or healer and feel these nerves come up, rather than thinking them to be bad vibes or a sign you shouldn't do it, recognize the emotions as a sign of great wonder, great momentum, and a valuable gift. The nerves are confirming that what you are about to receive is 100% real. Change is possible and, in the hands of great healers, ensured.